How to deal with rejection.
As people throughout the world we experience rejection from family and friends at some point in our lives. Sometimes even our business proposals get rejected by investors because of some reasons known and often unknown to us. In other situations you may find a father rejecting his own children, mothers neglecting their own children. Some people even find themselves rejected by their best friends. And it happens to most of the people if not to all of us.
The pain of rejection. Many people will agree with me when I say feeling and being rejected is one of the most painful things one can ever experience. And seldom unbearable if it happens to you for the very first time and finding you not ready for it. More especially when you face rejection from the people who are close to you, and that you absolutely never expected it from them. You can imagine the pain that a son goes through when is rejected and neglected by his own dad. A dad who gave birth to him, a dad whom the son is supposed to be protected and guided by him throughout his journey to manhood, a father who is supposed to be a good role model to this young man. It's seldom to find a situation where children rejects their own parents after they became successful in life but it does happen sometimes. When you get rejected by your own, you feel very lonely and useless in your life. Some people even feel that they are cursed. Rejection can be so bad to such an extent that some people end up committing suicide.
Why are you rejected?
There are lot of reasons that can lead someone to find himself or herself been rejected by their own. Sometimes a father can reject his own children because of just by being irresponsible. And we must bear in mind that children will forever remain innocent. When you don't have a purpose in life nobody will want to associate themselves with you and as a result you find yourself rejected. If you are can't find a job and struggling provide for your family, some of your family members may rejects you and even your friends, when days are dark friends are few.
Dealing with rejection.
Finding yourself having to face rejection from your own its hard and painful but don't rush to point fingers, and instead relax, take a deep breath and do an introspection. Find out exactly the reasons why are you being rejected and once you find the root of the problem, make sure you find the right solution to it. If you can't find the reasons why are you been rejected, you can still find someone to help you to deal with it. It's rare to find a situation where one is rejected for no reason but if it happens all you need to do is walk away and work hard, keep your head high and focus on your road to success.
Remember you can't make everyone happy and you won't be loved or liked by all people its life. And bear in mind that your life and career are more important than most of the things you may be worrying about right now.
Stop worrying and live your life because its a gift from God.
As people throughout the world we experience rejection from family and friends at some point in our lives. Sometimes even our business proposals get rejected by investors because of some reasons known and often unknown to us. In other situations you may find a father rejecting his own children, mothers neglecting their own children. Some people even find themselves rejected by their best friends. And it happens to most of the people if not to all of us.
The pain of rejection. Many people will agree with me when I say feeling and being rejected is one of the most painful things one can ever experience. And seldom unbearable if it happens to you for the very first time and finding you not ready for it. More especially when you face rejection from the people who are close to you, and that you absolutely never expected it from them. You can imagine the pain that a son goes through when is rejected and neglected by his own dad. A dad who gave birth to him, a dad whom the son is supposed to be protected and guided by him throughout his journey to manhood, a father who is supposed to be a good role model to this young man. It's seldom to find a situation where children rejects their own parents after they became successful in life but it does happen sometimes. When you get rejected by your own, you feel very lonely and useless in your life. Some people even feel that they are cursed. Rejection can be so bad to such an extent that some people end up committing suicide.
Why are you rejected?
There are lot of reasons that can lead someone to find himself or herself been rejected by their own. Sometimes a father can reject his own children because of just by being irresponsible. And we must bear in mind that children will forever remain innocent. When you don't have a purpose in life nobody will want to associate themselves with you and as a result you find yourself rejected. If you are can't find a job and struggling provide for your family, some of your family members may rejects you and even your friends, when days are dark friends are few.
Dealing with rejection.
Finding yourself having to face rejection from your own its hard and painful but don't rush to point fingers, and instead relax, take a deep breath and do an introspection. Find out exactly the reasons why are you being rejected and once you find the root of the problem, make sure you find the right solution to it. If you can't find the reasons why are you been rejected, you can still find someone to help you to deal with it. It's rare to find a situation where one is rejected for no reason but if it happens all you need to do is walk away and work hard, keep your head high and focus on your road to success.
Remember you can't make everyone happy and you won't be loved or liked by all people its life. And bear in mind that your life and career are more important than most of the things you may be worrying about right now.
Stop worrying and live your life because its a gift from God.
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